What can I say? I am a random, brutal, love dreamer.

[sarea]

Okay, after I vented the other day about love and relationships,

According to OK Cupid, I am:

The Wild Rose
Random Brutal Love Dreamer (RBLDf)

Colorful, but unpicked. You are The Wild Rose.

Prone to bouts of cynicism, sarcasm, and thorns, you excite a certain kind of man. Hoping to gather you up, he flirts and winks and asks you out, ultimately professing his love. Then you make him bleed. Why? Because you're the rare, independent, self-sufficient kind of woman who does want love, but not from a weakling.

You don't seem to take yourself too seriously, and that's refreshing. You aren't uptight; you don't over-plan. Romance-wise, sex isn't a top priority--a true relationship would be preferable. For your age, you haven't had a lot of bonafide love experience, though, and this kind of gets to core of the issue. You're very selective.

The problem is them, not you, right? You have lofty standards that few measure up to. You're out there all right, but not to be picked up by just anyone.

"You're never truly single as long as you have yourself."

Isn't that scary??? It knows me.

Have decided not to make this a crazy movie-watching weekend (mostly because they're not playing 21 Grams anymore, and I have no desire to sit through Master and Commander AND Cold Mountain). Instead am going to clean, beta Jade's Buffyfic, write IYOK5, and maybe write an Andrew drabble. Because Pud could not be more wrong about him being the equivalent of Neville. She could try, but she would not be successful. </Russ>

Comments

[rainpuddle13.livejournal.com]

Andrew *is* Buffyverse's equivalent to HPverse's Neville.

But, I do dare you to prove me wrong!

[ropo.livejournal.com]

You don't over-plan??? It knows you mostly. Heehee! But the rest of it, yeah, pretty much....

Me:

http://devel.okcupid.com/personality?type=DGSD&g=2&o=1&h=160

[annibug.livejournal.com]

I talked to my sister in law the other day and she told me she's trying an online dating service and I thought of you. I've had a hard time catching up with her because she's on a different date just about every night. She also told me she was surprised to find she's actually meeting "quality" guys (whatever that means) from online. Not all, but some. Who knew?

Have you given it anymore thought?

Re:

[sarea-okelani.livejournal.com]

I'm glad to hear that it's been successful for someone else, but I'm pretty much at the same place I was before, where my brain just completely puts up a block of NO. And, as my personality profile kind of indicates, I am not one of those people who feels that I need someone else in my life to make me feel "complete" -- but what I fear is that one day, I won't feel that way, and then it'll be too late. The whole regret thing. So I'm still on track to do what I said I'd do in that one post, which is to wait it out until later this year, and try and be more open minded about it.

[lissannej.livejournal.com]

Yay for the possibility of IYOK 5!